The Speed Of Your Seduction Success In Meeting Women Depends On…
The speed of your seduction success depends on your mental attitide. There have been times when I would go out and do a pickup without any so-called seduction techniques, back before I knew any of these principles. Of course, I also shot myself in the foot mroe times than not, because I didn’t know how to control my own thoughts, emotions, and mental outlook. One of the imost important things I will ever remember is from a seminar in 2000 with Dr. John M. Latourrette (www.mentaltrainingsecrets.com). He told us about Thoughts, Words, and Actions.
What is interesting iss that when you KNOW WHAT YOU WANT, your ACTIONS will give you feedback.
This is so funny, because I remember sitting down with Doc, and he gave me several tips on what to do to get where I want to go, and I kept asking him, “Well, what do I do if this happens or if that happens?” The funny thing is that when you have a goal and you take action on it, you have a feedforward mechanism where you get feedback and you adjust and you gain experience. And knowledge. And the wisdom and understanding to know what to do with it. So you can move forward toward your goal.
It’s like the guy who memorized every seduction pattern ever written by the seduction gurus and yet he couldn’t get a date, because he never went and used any of the information. Sometimes all you got to do is go up to her and say “HI!” And do it with the correct frame of mind.
Now I don’t know what your relationship or seduction goals are. I do know that these principles will work for those who use them, though.
Think about weight lifting for a moment.
Weight lifters use the overload principle to train and get stronger.
They overload themselves so they are training just past their current comfort level. This is something combat experts have known for a long time — train harder than you will have to fight, and when the real thing comes along, you will know what to do, even in the middle of chaos, even if all hell breaks loose, because you know you can rely on your training.
Most people don’t have any training to rely on.
Anyway, the weight lifter trains a little bit harder than what he or she is accustomed to.
Then comes the rest period.
This means you go and do something else!
You’ve GOT to have more going on for you than just “chasing women”.
Neil Strauss’ book The Game has some good examples of what happens to a guy when he gets so caught up in having to seduce women all the time that he forgets that his ORIGINAL purpose for learning to attract women was to have a better life and to be able to share his life with the kind of woman or women he likes to be around.
Ross Jeffries wrote about this several years before most of the current seduction trainers came in to the picture.
In his book “How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed,” Ross Jeffries says, on page 11, “… a life spent doing nothing but chasing women is a pretty stupid one.” Yeah, the book is “old” and some of the tactics might seem cheesy, but the principles in that book BEHIND how the lines work are priceless and those principles and strategies will always work.
Even if your tactics change from walkups to handwriting analysis to palmreading or whatever you use to meet women.
Whatever tactics and strategies you use, you must have the correct frame of mind, the correct beliefs about yourself and what is possible for you and what you will and will not accept in to your life.
I’ve had some moments of INSTANT MIRACLES with women before, and I used to sweep those under the carpet, because I thought I was doing something “wrong” by picking up a woman so easily. See, I was brainwashed to think it was wrong to enjoy making out with someone I had just met.
The presupposition there with “I don’t know you yet,” or with “but we just met” is the person has to have some convincer strategy about how COMFORTABLE they feel with you AND how ATTRACTED they are to you.
Many of you know the same thing I found out — oftentimes the women who claim they don’t know you well enough to go out with you are the same ones who meet someone ELSE and start dating (or even sleeping with them!) right after they meet them.
And it’s not just the “sluts” either.
They’re quite often normal women who found someone who managed to fulfill what was needed to create instant romance. That “electricity,” that “connection,” that sense of “this is someone I REALLY WANT NOW!”
Well, like I said, I used to sweep those under the carpet and try to keep them hidden, but I found out SOMETHINGS IMPORTANT HERE NOW: these are principles of manifestation. They will work for you, or they will work against you.
I was brainwashed to think that success with women was something “wrong,” something “evil”.
Most people don’t understand how manifestation works, so life seems to work against them.
We can change that attractor field, and we can change it in an instant.
Once we know how.
Well that’s what I focus on in my new course “Secrets Of Instant Romance”. You can order it by clicking here:
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Click that link now. Or stay stuck where you are with your current level of success with women. The choice is up to you.
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See you there!
Jim Knippenberg
ESP, Remote Influence, Dream Invader, and Manifestation Trainer To Help You Get What You Want From Yourself And From Others!