If you want to know how to influence a woman’s subconscious mind a good place to begin is with yourself.

Remember, “you go there first” in any type of influence.

How does the subconscious mind work for people in general?

Remember, women are people, so when you want to know how to influence a woman’s subconscious mind, learn the principles of subconscious influence.

Of course, we start with the Three Minds – the conscious mind, the subconscious mind, and the super conscious mind.

Or what they would call in Huna “The Three Selves” – the lower self, the middle self, and the Higher Self.

Of course Huna is not really the religion of the ancient Hawaiins, but instead is something made up by Max Freedom Long.

There are some good workable principles there, though.

Anyway, the subconscious mind accepts whatever suggestion is given to it, and acts accordingly.

Someone might ask, then, how come the suggestions you give to her subconscious aren’t the ones she’s acting on?

Well, see, we also have a conscious mind – the rational, reasoning mind.

So if she gives herself suggestions that cancel out your suggestion, then your suggestion does not get acted upon.

Or if a more powerful suggestion, such as a belief or conviction is in place, then your suggestion might not get through UNLESS you know how to slide it in under the radar so that it fits what she already believes or creates an entirely new frame for her.

Remember also that when the willpower and imagination are in conflict, the imagination wins the day.

So what types of things does she IMAGINE vividly?

And how can you hijack that process so it is geared toward what you want her to think about.

Of course we do have Dream Invader tactics for this sort of thing, and we also have covert language patterns, anchoring, and other tactics.

If you want a real good way on how to influence a woman’s subconscious mind from the moment you meet her, you might really enjoy Secrets Of Covert Hypnosis To Get Others To Instantly Like You!  Click Here for more information on that.

Remember when you want to influence a woman’s subconscious mind to incorporate the principles of subconsious communication, how the subconscious decides what suggestions to act upon, and how the subconscious can be programmed and conditioned by emotion, repetition, and time convincer strategies.

For more on subconscious communication and influence, visit www.mindcontrolresources.com

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg

How do you pickup women when you have approach anxiety about walkups?

It’s kinda hard to do a successful pickup if you don’t go MEET them!

One of the things that is helpful that I’ve read from others and have done is to just go do warmups at first when you go out.

 This is especially true if you haven’t gone out doing pickups for awhile or if you’ve been in a relationship or busy with other things and just haven’t been doing walkups.

Think of it like batting practice.

So you do three or four of them to get back in the groove.

Then you use that energy from the warmups to get going.

Of course it does help if you know how to Get Others To Instantly Like you!  I do have a course on Secrets Of Covert Hypnosis To Get Others To Instantly Like You! and it’s a lot of fun to use those tactics!

It’s easier to do the pickup with a woman when youknow she’s ALREADY attracted to you!

But if you’re just plain scared shitless of going up and doing that walkup or meeting women or doing a pickup, one of the things you can do – and I used to do this when I would do public speaking before I built up my confidence – “Ground” yourself in place.  You know, just do a quick “bounce” where you are and “ground” your energies.

Then leave that chattering self talk of the conscious mind there where you grounded yourself, and imagine your BODY walking forward and use whatever opener you decided to use.

If you don’t know how to at least get a conversation started, I’ve got a 2 CD set on “How To Get Virtually Any Woman’s Undivided Attention In Just 30 Seconds Or Less!”

Then you let your body START the walkup, and let the scared senseless self talk that you left a step or two behind you see that you actually SURVIVED the walkup (hahaha), and then imagine that part of you re-entering your body now that “the worst part is over”.

Of course I’ve used that technique before, and if you know what your opener is going to be, it does work.

It’s much EASIER to do the walkup though if you got your energies running right and you’re already having fun.

For more on real simple, easy techniques you can do to “Overcome Your Fear Of Meeting Women,” check out my DVD Set on “How To Overcome Your Fear Of Meeting Women In Just One Evening!”

It ain’t Walt Disney Productions.

In fact, it’s just me in front of the camcorder, spilling my guts on more than 10 ways I’ve successfully used to Overcome Approach Anxiety so you can meet women and pickup women.

Here’s that link again: http://www.mindcontrolresources.com/casanova.html

See you there!

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
P.S.  If you want to get ALL THREE of those resources I mentioned, write to me first and let me know you want a package deal when you buy all three courses at one time.  That package isn’t on the website, so write to me if you want to get all three courses at the same time!

 How To Have Character Instead Of Being One!

Do you have character?  Or are you just one instead?

Character is something that comes about from “clean thinking”.  And the surest way to BECOME a character instead of having character is to fall in to the trap of “Stinking thinking”.

Now it’s true that we all screw up sometimes.

Hopefully as we gain experience we learn to make more and more good decisions and to have better quality thinking.

But seeing as we’re all human, sometimes when you get a group of humans together – even if it’s something as “simple” as a couple, if you can call that “simple,” people get bent out of shape over “dumb stuff”.

Maybe it was the other person’s fault, maybe it wasn’t.

But think long-term and what is your COMMON goal, your COMMON values and ideals?

Is it worth working towards together?

If you’re on separate paths, kool!  Wish them well and part ways.

But sometimes it’s just something ridiculous.

A misunderstanding.

I helped my mom with something awhile back, and I did a real good job of helping her.

And one of my friends also helped her out with the project – someone who is actually there in closer proximity (I’m about 1,000 miles away in a different part of the country).

My mom has selective memory and thinks the other person did all the work, but somehow “forgot” the long phone calls and the covert installation of skills I did.

She probably doesn’t know how to calibrate what I did, anyway.

Which means I did a real good job of covertly doing what I did.

If she were a client, though, I would have goofed because she wouldn’t have any reference points for what I did to help her.  So I learned something valuable there.

And at first, I was PISSED when she gave credit to the other person.

Because I spent a lot of time on the phone, doing some real good covert hypnosis.

Like I said, my mom has no calibration for what I did, nor for the anchors I set, nor for the convincer strategies and meta programs I used, nor for the covert use of timelines and installation of resources.

So I got PO’d because I didn’t get credit for what I did.

So I had to remember what MY values were and why I did what I did.

Then I also remembered MY criteria for how I know I did a good job.

And all of a sudden, that AWARENESS of my criteria brought a smile to my face, because I did such a good job that she doesn’t even know what I did.

Those of you who do hypnosis, energy work, or personal coaching for a living can relate with me.

But those of you who don’t can certainly relate to times when a minor misunderstanding escalated.

Maybe you thought you weren’t appreciated or were being ignored.  Or just flat out thought the other person done you wrong.

Although I’ve never been there, I’ve been told that at the US Military Academy at West Point there’s a small plaque at the back of a room that is filled with tributes to American military leaders and heros.

Someone who was incredibly important to General George Washington early in the American Revolution.

In fact, we here in the US would all have a British flag flying over our heads if it weren’t for that general who was so important early on in the Revolutionary War.

Now his great service to his country is almost completely forgottn, overshaddowed by others – in some cases others who had less ability and less skill than he.

His name is associated with pond scum and traitors.

His name?

Benedict Arnold.

That’s right.

THAT Benedict Arnold.

The traitor.

The “character” of the American Revolution.

Because he didn’t have CHARACTER – he was a character instead.

He got overlooked for promotion.

He got “done wrong” and passed by when others with less skill got promoted.

Part of it was probably just bad marketing on his part.  Being a military leader also depends on knowing how to use the propaganda machine to your favor.  Rommel did it.  Mac Arthur did it.  So did Norman Schwartzkopf.

Some people are skilled and know how to promote themselves.

Others just know how to work the propaganda machine and the system in their favor.

I worked with some people who got certificates about what a great job they did, and those of us who worked with them just shook our heads in amazement.

But also meta programs come in to play here.

And convincer strategies.

And so something small grows and grows until one person in the relationship is so fed up that they turn traitor and sabotage the relationship.

Maybe you’ve done it before?  I sure have.  Hopefully we learn from it and grow so we make better choices next time.

Of course when it happens it’s always “the other person’s fault.”

But does it get you where you want to go???  That’s the important thing.

Poor old Benedict Arnold never really got what he wanted.

He just screwed himself more than he already was.

Oftentimes we get disappointed or let down when the other person doesn’t live up to OUR expectations of what we think they should do or who they should be.

But a little bit of clean thinking can go a long ways in preventing much of the emotional distress people put their own selves through.

More on this in the “Elite Members Only” training area.

http://www.mindcontrolresources.com/MembersOnly.html