I’m re-reading The Silva Mind Control Method For Getting Help From Your Other Side by Jose Silva and Robert B. Stone, one of the really outstanding Silva Method books, and it reminded me of a post my friend Doc* made recently about using SUBMODALITIES while programming.

The mirror of the mind technique is to go to alpha brain wave level, visualize the problem in a blue framed mirror and then change the mirror’s frame to a white one and visualize the GOAL or INTENDED state inside that framed mirror instead.  (Silva Mind Control Method For Getting Help From Your Other Side, by Jose Silva and Robert B. Stone)

Here are some things to consider and also try out and have fun experimenting with.  Make sure you keep a notebook with your results as you try it out and have fun with it!

Does the white framed mirror work as sort of a “uni-mold” for manifesting?  Or does it have more to do with submodalities?

What happens if you ALSO change locations for things (something you believe vs. something you’re not sure about or something that won’t happen vs. something that hasn’t happened yet, but you know it will) along with the color of the frame of the mirror?

Since Jose Silva did NOT include “locations for things” (from NLP) in his technique what is the importance of the color blue around the mirror picture of the unwanted state and the color white around the mirror picture of what it is you do want instead?

Is it a simple submodality shift to keep the two separate?  Or is there something else there?  How else can you adapt and use that technique to manifest what you want?

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
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* John M. La Tourrette – check out his free yahoo groups at mindmastery-essentialskills@yahoogroups.com and healingenergies-essentialskills@yahoogroups.com for those of you reading this on my blog who aren’t on Doc’s yahoo groups yet.  It’s free, doesn’t cost a cent…

In case the link to the news story expires (click here for the story), a South Korean hypnotist got fined for moving in for a kiss on a woman he THOUGHT was hypnotized but was faking it.

First off, you’re generally not going to get someone to do something they wouldn’t normally do by using hypnosis.

But if you want to use covert hypnosis for dates, we’ll get to that here in a moment.  Along with how to do it WITHOUT coming across as creepy.

In fact, hypnosisi happens all the time.

Hypnosis is altered states.  Also hypnosis is conditioning and conditioning is hypnosis.

So what could our example from South Korea have done differently?

Many of you hypnotists know that when you hypnotize someone, you create very deep levels of rapport with them.

And when you focus on their feelings of pleasure or well-being, and anchor it to the sound of your voice (“as you just pay attention to the sound of my voice and relax even more deeply…” for example) the person may end up being attracted to you without additional efforts on your part.

So that’s one route the hypnotist could have taken.

Another thing people think they’re going to do is give hypnotic commands for the person to get turned on and jump you while they’re in trance.

While that can work, it can also backfire and cause you legal problems.

By the way, I’m not able to give you any kind of legal advice.

I’ll tell you what, though, if the person does something like that under trance, it’s because they felt like doing it at the time.

Then if they have “buyer’s remorse” later on they will BLAME YOU for using hypnosis on them, as if they had no control over themselves.

A better technique, which I learned from my friend Ross Jeffries is to count them back up, and have them physically stand up and move from the chair.  Ask them how they feel.

At that point the “hypnosis” is officially over.

Even though the feelings are still there.

And by the way, once you understand the principles behind hypnotic conversation and hypnotic influence, you don’t need to do what that South Korean hypnotist attempted to do.

Instead, you can just have a “normal conversation” and naturally and easily attract others to you in ways that cause them to feel really good about having met you.

The person who tries to “steal” something from the other person or “trick them in to doing something” like the South Korean hypnotist did will come across as creepy, slimy, and will perhaps also land in some legal doo-doo.

Instead, start to make a habit of focusing on the types of feelings and emotions you want people to experience around you, and design your conversation in such a way that causes them to feel those good feelings and sensations while thinking it was all their own idea instead of being “planted” inside their mind by a force outside of themselves (although there are people who do like to be overwhelmed by sensations from someone else, which is a topic for a different article).

Remember when you make it a part of your lifestyle and who you are to turn on those good feelings in other people you may be very well surprised at just how many people WANT to give you what it is you’d like to share with them!

Now go have fun.

Jim Knippenberg
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And Much, Much More!…

If you want to start improving confidence, you want to also make sure you improve your self image and your self esteem at the same time.  You want to make sure you’re confident in abilities you can verify.  For example, I could become confident that I were “Superman,” but if I were to jump off the Empire State Building, I would most surely go “splat” when I hit the ground – regardless of how “confident” I was before jumping.

Well one of the ways we can start improving confidence in whatever context is important for you – and I would urge you to start with a SPECIFIC CONTEXT where you’d like to start improving your confidence – is to use the Mind Control technique of mental programming or mental rehearsal.

You basically relax body and mind and relax to where you have balanced brain wave activity between left and right hemispheres of the brain.

You could use self-hypnosis or record a hypnosis tape, but we prefer to use “whole brain thinking” and most of the time when someone is using what is traditionally thought of as hypnosis, their conscious mind is “out to lunch,” so to speak.

So using a self-hypnosis or meditation (the Silva Method is a great method, for example, along with some others.  My friend John La Tourrette also helped develop a real good course for the Silva Ultramind people, which is also a great way to learn to “go to level”) – and by meditation, I mean ACTIVE meditation, not just ‘zoning out’ as a means of emotional escape, you would do a whole brain / whole mind hookup and then do mental programming and mental rehearsal of what it is you want to have more confidence with.

For example, mental rehearsal of being more confident in social sitations.  Or more confident in sports or other types of performance.

Make sure you also mentally rehearse doing whatever it is you want to be confident with CORRECTLY.  So for giving a presentation or speech, you don’t necessarily care if the speech is “flawless” – hopefully instead you want to get some RESULT from the presentation or speech.

So using the mental rehearsal and mental programming, you would program for the end result – finishing the speech and closing the deal, with the customer happy they purchased from you.  Or talking with someone you met, asking for their contact information or a date, and getting the result you want.

This is a really powerful technique, by the way.

I had done some mental rehearsal to have more confidence and success with meeting women awhile back, and soon afterward, I started noticing I had much more confidence with meeting women AND they were responding to me much differently than they had before.  I recorded a 2 CD set on that called “How To Get Virtually Any Woman’s Undivided Attention In Just 30 Seconds Or Less!” because of that mental programming and mental rehearsal “at level”.

It’s a great technique, and I strongly suggest you practice and use it for whatever area(s) you would like to use for improving confidence.  Start with some specific activity or context, work on it, and then work on another after you get the results you want in one area.  With repeated success you will start improving your overall confidence levels in everything you do, which will make it much easier for you to learn new skills and to try and enjoy things you would have never even considered enjoying before.

For more information on ways you can start improving confidence, check out this website: www.improvingconfidence.com .  I think you’ll really like it!  So click that link now!

I will see you there!

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
Mind Control and ESP Trainer.

Remote Viewing is one of those things people are sometimes interested in because they want to go to a psychic to have their fortune told to them.

That presupposes they’re going to someone outside of themselves to look for “luck” or “fortune telling”.

The most successful people in life tend to be “at cause” instead of “at effect” and they tend to be proactive and take responsibility for their own lives and their own decisions.

We already have a good mechanism built in to our minds for how to use Remote Viewing on whether or not something will be a good decision for you.  I first learned this from my friend Dr. John La Tourrette, and he’s the one who also showed me how to use it along with Remote Viewing.

Remember a time when you made a decision and it turned out really good.

Now remember the moment when you made the decision to take that action.

Where did you “see” the thought of doing whatever it is you did?

If you aren’t sure where you “see” that decision as you experience making that decision again, then POINT to where you have that decision.  Now notice if it’s a big picture or small, bright or dark, color or black and white, how far away it is from your body…

(Here’s a good calibration tool:  Start to pay attention to where people look and gesture when they talk.  Pay attention to your own gestures.  When you’re talking about doing some activity, where do you tend to point?  This would take an entire article to cover.  Maybe more on this later…)

What body sensations and feelings did you have?

Where specifically in your body did you feel those feelings?  Where did the feeling start?  Where did it go from there?

For instance, if I’m about to make a bad decision, I’ll notice a feeling like my brains dropping out my ass.  I’ll notice the picture of that decision is in a different location than a good decision.  I’ll notice certain body sensations…

And those are DIFFERENT than the locations and feelings about a good decision.

But wait!

There’s MORE!

What if you really want to do something, and it comes up as a “bad decision”?

Sometimes a bad decision can be turned in to a good decision just by changing some of the variables.

For instance, say I want a new job.  And I have a certain type of job in mind.

This really happened to me, by the way…

When I worked in telecom, I was bored with my job and pretty much hated it.

Some of my friends there had contacts with various vendors they used to work with, so they told me about a job opening I could start the very next Monday.  Even included hotel, travel expenses and $40 bucks a day for food, which was about twice as much as I was spending at the time.

It was like a dream come true as far as a career move – I’d have had more experience, I would have moved up the pay scale and had a better resume, I’d have had some variety in my job.

But when I thought about the decision to go there, it just felt bad.

Real bad.

So even though my friends had put in a good word for me and helped me out, I turned the job down.

A couple weeks later, that company laid off over 3,000 people.

I would have been one of them.

So that particular job at that particular time was a bad decision.

But finding a new job was a good decision.

Sometimes it’s real simple.  Like I want to go to the mall.  And as I’m about to go a certain route, I have a “bad decision feeling” so I simply go a different way, and find out I avoided a nasty traffic jam.

What’s another example?

There really are countless ways you can start to notice and use this.

A couple of my friends wanted sushi.

Having sushi is neither a good decision nor a bad decision.  Usually.

But the one friend has good calibration skills, and he just felt bad about the sushi.

The other one saw food and his eyes got bigger than his plate.  He ended up sicker than a dog with food poisoning.

The friend who calibrated correctly took steps to stay healthy.

There have been times when I wanted to do a specific project, and I got a bad feeling about it.

So I asked the magic question “If I COULD do the project I want to do and have it be a good decision, how would I do that?”

The answer that came back to me was “Do the project with so-and-so instead of the person you were thinking about doing the project with!”

I’ve actually gone against that calibration before just because I was good friends with someone and was excited about the project, and I agreed to do it with them anyway.

The whole thing fell through.

Another time I had a bad feeling about doing a project with a friend, and it was a project I was interested in doing, so I asked that magic question again “If I could do X and make it work, how would I?”

The answer that came back to me was “do that project with so-and-so instead” and so I did that project with them, and not only did it go well, I also learned a lot of cool things from my friend that I wouldn’t have learned otherwise.

You want to make sure you calibrate those feelings based on a good decision you’ve made and a bad decision you’ve made, not just good or bad feelings.

There’s a huge difference there, and most people don’t know it.

Good and bad feelings are oftentimes just a byproduct of our previous brainwashing.

I feel bad about having a beer once in awhile because my uncles were alcoholics.

I feel bad or good about certain topics based on religious (or non-religious) programming, or because of how I was brought up, or because mommy and daddy said…

I remember one time I wanted to ask a really hot woman out, and I had this bad feeling of catching nasty diseases.  So I thought it was “The Lord” telling me to stay away from her.

But once I learned some basic calibration skills, I began to realize it was just brainwashing I got from other people telling me how God would “smite” me if I did things they didn’t approve of…

Here’s another funny example.

I have a friend who wanted to rent or sell his house.  He wanted to keep his “junk” in the garage and basement though, so he started thinking of people he knew that he could sell or rent the house to so he could get the money for the place and still get to keep all his crap there.

He called me up and wanted to show me the house.

Before showing me the house, he told me the story about how “The Lord” told him to give me a call to look at the house.  The funny thing is, his location for “The Lord Told Him” was his location for inner dialog, his own self talk.

Basically, he was talking to himself and hallucinated “The Lord” telling him what to do.  (By the way, this sort of thing happens all the time – the preacher gets up and reads “Thus sayeth, the Lord, Today if you HEAR MY VOICE…” and over time it gets embedded in to the subconscious that the preacher’s voice is the voice of the Lord, even if we know from a rational point of view that it just ain’t so!)

But then other times, you got that inner voice that gives you real good advice, and you know to pay real close attention.

And as you begin to pay attention and calibrate those feelings, those locations, those qualities as you think about what it is you want to do, you’ll have something that is much more valuable than a “psychic hotline”.

And you’ll be the one who is in control of your own life instead of hoping for someone else’s blessing or approval or depending on someone else to predict your future for you.

I hope this explains what I posted in my “tweet” a little bit better than what I could do with 140 characters.

If you have questions or comments, feel free to ask.  Comments and questions will appear after I approve them (I only do this to prevent spammers from interfering with the quality content here).

Thanks for reading,
Jim Knippenberg

Here’s another training video on how you can use conversational hypnosis to hypnotize someone.  I give actual examples in the video clip that you can adapt to your own conversational hypnosis (Click Here for More Information On Conversational Hypnosis ) as you go out to hypnotize someone for whatever it is you want to influence them to do

Also includes info on an nlp ebook on using anchoring for hypnotic conditioning.

Here’s the video clip!  Enjoy!

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg

Conversational Hypnosis is usually thought of as being embedded commands, weasel phrases, sleight of mouth patterns, hypnotic rhythms of speech, or simply direct commands.

A lot of people want to know “is there a language pattern I can use to get so and so to go out with me” or to “buy my product” or to “do this…”

One of the overlooked techniques of conversational hypnosis is the power of using anchors for conditioning, all in your normal, everyday conversation.

It happens all the time anyway, so you might as well learn to use it in your favor.

I was shocked when I found out I had been doing conversational hypnosis that was causing me to get turned down, rejected, and I wasn’t just doing it to others – I was doing it to myself on the inside also.

Well, one of the conditioning and training tools we have available to start to change yourself from the inside out and then ALSO to influence others is to decide what you want and then set up the anchors to condition yourself or others for the type of success you want.

I’ve got a video clip on it here:

Check it out and then Click Here to go to the website!

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
http://www.simpleconversationalhypnosis.com

If you want to know how to influence a woman’s subconscious mind a good place to begin is with yourself.

Remember, “you go there first” in any type of influence.

How does the subconscious mind work for people in general?

Remember, women are people, so when you want to know how to influence a woman’s subconscious mind, learn the principles of subconscious influence.

Of course, we start with the Three Minds – the conscious mind, the subconscious mind, and the super conscious mind.

Or what they would call in Huna “The Three Selves” – the lower self, the middle self, and the Higher Self.

Of course Huna is not really the religion of the ancient Hawaiins, but instead is something made up by Max Freedom Long.

There are some good workable principles there, though.

Anyway, the subconscious mind accepts whatever suggestion is given to it, and acts accordingly.

Someone might ask, then, how come the suggestions you give to her subconscious aren’t the ones she’s acting on?

Well, see, we also have a conscious mind – the rational, reasoning mind.

So if she gives herself suggestions that cancel out your suggestion, then your suggestion does not get acted upon.

Or if a more powerful suggestion, such as a belief or conviction is in place, then your suggestion might not get through UNLESS you know how to slide it in under the radar so that it fits what she already believes or creates an entirely new frame for her.

Remember also that when the willpower and imagination are in conflict, the imagination wins the day.

So what types of things does she IMAGINE vividly?

And how can you hijack that process so it is geared toward what you want her to think about.

Of course we do have Dream Invader tactics for this sort of thing, and we also have covert language patterns, anchoring, and other tactics.

If you want a real good way on how to influence a woman’s subconscious mind from the moment you meet her, you might really enjoy Secrets Of Covert Hypnosis To Get Others To Instantly Like You!  Click Here for more information on that.

Remember when you want to influence a woman’s subconscious mind to incorporate the principles of subconsious communication, how the subconscious decides what suggestions to act upon, and how the subconscious can be programmed and conditioned by emotion, repetition, and time convincer strategies.

For more on subconscious communication and influence, visit www.mindcontrolresources.com

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg

How do you pickup women when you have approach anxiety about walkups?

It’s kinda hard to do a successful pickup if you don’t go MEET them!

One of the things that is helpful that I’ve read from others and have done is to just go do warmups at first when you go out.

 This is especially true if you haven’t gone out doing pickups for awhile or if you’ve been in a relationship or busy with other things and just haven’t been doing walkups.

Think of it like batting practice.

So you do three or four of them to get back in the groove.

Then you use that energy from the warmups to get going.

Of course it does help if you know how to Get Others To Instantly Like you!  I do have a course on Secrets Of Covert Hypnosis To Get Others To Instantly Like You! and it’s a lot of fun to use those tactics!

It’s easier to do the pickup with a woman when youknow she’s ALREADY attracted to you!

But if you’re just plain scared shitless of going up and doing that walkup or meeting women or doing a pickup, one of the things you can do – and I used to do this when I would do public speaking before I built up my confidence – “Ground” yourself in place.  You know, just do a quick “bounce” where you are and “ground” your energies.

Then leave that chattering self talk of the conscious mind there where you grounded yourself, and imagine your BODY walking forward and use whatever opener you decided to use.

If you don’t know how to at least get a conversation started, I’ve got a 2 CD set on “How To Get Virtually Any Woman’s Undivided Attention In Just 30 Seconds Or Less!”

Then you let your body START the walkup, and let the scared senseless self talk that you left a step or two behind you see that you actually SURVIVED the walkup (hahaha), and then imagine that part of you re-entering your body now that “the worst part is over”.

Of course I’ve used that technique before, and if you know what your opener is going to be, it does work.

It’s much EASIER to do the walkup though if you got your energies running right and you’re already having fun.

For more on real simple, easy techniques you can do to “Overcome Your Fear Of Meeting Women,” check out my DVD Set on “How To Overcome Your Fear Of Meeting Women In Just One Evening!”

It ain’t Walt Disney Productions.

In fact, it’s just me in front of the camcorder, spilling my guts on more than 10 ways I’ve successfully used to Overcome Approach Anxiety so you can meet women and pickup women.

Here’s that link again: http://www.mindcontrolresources.com/casanova.html

See you there!

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
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 How To Have Character Instead Of Being One!

Do you have character?  Or are you just one instead?

Character is something that comes about from “clean thinking”.  And the surest way to BECOME a character instead of having character is to fall in to the trap of “Stinking thinking”.

Now it’s true that we all screw up sometimes.

Hopefully as we gain experience we learn to make more and more good decisions and to have better quality thinking.

But seeing as we’re all human, sometimes when you get a group of humans together – even if it’s something as “simple” as a couple, if you can call that “simple,” people get bent out of shape over “dumb stuff”.

Maybe it was the other person’s fault, maybe it wasn’t.

But think long-term and what is your COMMON goal, your COMMON values and ideals?

Is it worth working towards together?

If you’re on separate paths, kool!  Wish them well and part ways.

But sometimes it’s just something ridiculous.

A misunderstanding.

I helped my mom with something awhile back, and I did a real good job of helping her.

And one of my friends also helped her out with the project – someone who is actually there in closer proximity (I’m about 1,000 miles away in a different part of the country).

My mom has selective memory and thinks the other person did all the work, but somehow “forgot” the long phone calls and the covert installation of skills I did.

She probably doesn’t know how to calibrate what I did, anyway.

Which means I did a real good job of covertly doing what I did.

If she were a client, though, I would have goofed because she wouldn’t have any reference points for what I did to help her.  So I learned something valuable there.

And at first, I was PISSED when she gave credit to the other person.

Because I spent a lot of time on the phone, doing some real good covert hypnosis.

Like I said, my mom has no calibration for what I did, nor for the anchors I set, nor for the convincer strategies and meta programs I used, nor for the covert use of timelines and installation of resources.

So I got PO’d because I didn’t get credit for what I did.

So I had to remember what MY values were and why I did what I did.

Then I also remembered MY criteria for how I know I did a good job.

And all of a sudden, that AWARENESS of my criteria brought a smile to my face, because I did such a good job that she doesn’t even know what I did.

Those of you who do hypnosis, energy work, or personal coaching for a living can relate with me.

But those of you who don’t can certainly relate to times when a minor misunderstanding escalated.

Maybe you thought you weren’t appreciated or were being ignored.  Or just flat out thought the other person done you wrong.

Although I’ve never been there, I’ve been told that at the US Military Academy at West Point there’s a small plaque at the back of a room that is filled with tributes to American military leaders and heros.

Someone who was incredibly important to General George Washington early in the American Revolution.

In fact, we here in the US would all have a British flag flying over our heads if it weren’t for that general who was so important early on in the Revolutionary War.

Now his great service to his country is almost completely forgottn, overshaddowed by others – in some cases others who had less ability and less skill than he.

His name is associated with pond scum and traitors.

His name?

Benedict Arnold.

That’s right.

THAT Benedict Arnold.

The traitor.

The “character” of the American Revolution.

Because he didn’t have CHARACTER – he was a character instead.

He got overlooked for promotion.

He got “done wrong” and passed by when others with less skill got promoted.

Part of it was probably just bad marketing on his part.  Being a military leader also depends on knowing how to use the propaganda machine to your favor.  Rommel did it.  Mac Arthur did it.  So did Norman Schwartzkopf.

Some people are skilled and know how to promote themselves.

Others just know how to work the propaganda machine and the system in their favor.

I worked with some people who got certificates about what a great job they did, and those of us who worked with them just shook our heads in amazement.

But also meta programs come in to play here.

And convincer strategies.

And so something small grows and grows until one person in the relationship is so fed up that they turn traitor and sabotage the relationship.

Maybe you’ve done it before?  I sure have.  Hopefully we learn from it and grow so we make better choices next time.

Of course when it happens it’s always “the other person’s fault.”

But does it get you where you want to go???  That’s the important thing.

Poor old Benedict Arnold never really got what he wanted.

He just screwed himself more than he already was.

Oftentimes we get disappointed or let down when the other person doesn’t live up to OUR expectations of what we think they should do or who they should be.

But a little bit of clean thinking can go a long ways in preventing much of the emotional distress people put their own selves through.

More on this in the “Elite Members Only” training area.

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Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
Telepathy, Mind Control, ESP, Covert Hypnosis & Covert Influence Trainer
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