Is a relationship psychic reading any good?
There are many, many ways you can benefit from psychic awareness.
There are also many pitfalls people fall in to.
In this article I’m going to focus specifically on benefits and pitfalls of relationship psychic readings. These points will also apply to other applications too though.
We all have the ability through the heart and mind to do our own readings and to have our own knowings.
So why does it seem difficult to do sometimes? Why does it seem difficult to get answers sometimes?
I know someone who currently has cataracts. It clouds their vision. They cannot read or see as well as they used to.
Our own thoughts, emotions, doubts, fears, insecurities, grudges, gripes, disappointments, hopes – all these and more – provide a “filter” that we see through.
It’s like in the Bible where it says “for now we see as through a glass darkly.”
Most folks are not aware of their own “clouded vision.”
I have been reminded of this before also in attempting to get answers regarding someone for the purpose of “making things right” with them.
Answers that often would have been easy to get seemed distant and far away.
Most folks do not know they are the ones who are responsible for their own filters, their own thoughts, their own emotions.
It may be true that the other person has hurt, offended, let us down, or done us wrong in some way or other. They are responsible for their own self. I am responsible for me. You are responsible for you.
One of the greatest mistakes people make is trying to get someone else to “do it for them.”
They want to go to a psychic and get help with their relationships.
Edgar Cayce was very, very good.
He always gave advice on improving one’s own attitude, thoughts, and emotions, along with understanding of how those affect the current situation and how the improvement of those same forces lead to positive change.
Most people doing readings are good at “cold reading.” They simply take your money.
Notice that Edgar Cayce accepted donations, but he did not charge a fee for his readings.
Most people are really not good enough to give you that kind of advice.
There are some, however, who are excellent enough at what they do that they can train you how to access those answers for yourself.
Most of the people who do believe in psychic abilities are far too quick to abdicate the throne of responsibility. Instead of devloping their inner self, their thoughts, their attitudes, their words, their actions, they want to be “at effect” of the things that happen to them – including the person they want a relationship with or the person they want to give them answers.
Even when someone else has “done us wrong,” there is a huge difference between blaming and self-responsibility.
Please note that self-responsibility is not the same as blaming of self.
So is there a way to benefit from doing our own relationship psychic reading?
However, there are some things we must do in order to be accurate:
1.) Be willing to let go of gripes, complaints, grudges, feelings of abandonment, fears, insecurities, doubts.
2.) Be willing to step back from the situation and examine it intelligently.
Sometimes the answer is “walk away.”
Sometimes the answer is “keep working at it.”
Sometimes the answer is “you need to work on self in order to attract that other person back in to your life.”
I know personally I have fallen in to two different “mind-traps,” and I know others who have done the same.
The first mind-trap is to…
1.) Blaming of self for the entire screwup. “It’s all my fault.” It could be true. That’s usually not the case, though.
2.) Blaming of the other person for the entire screwup. “It’s all their fault!” This falls under the category of a “victim mentality” and “Poor Little Ole Me!”
Sometimes we might have found ourselves in relationships where the other person truly is rotten to the core.
And they might be responsible for much garbage they have done to us.
However, keep in mind that in order for there to be a relationship, there has to, by definition, be at least 2 individuals there in relationship to each other.
So instead of griping, blaming, pointing the finger, a better question is “Now that I know what I do not want, what can I do – that I have control of and responsibility for – to attract the type of relationship I do desire.”
Whatever your case might be, another common mistake many make is the need to have a relationship work with a specific person.
If they want to go, let them go.
Is it sometimes hard to do?
There is another side of this.
When our heart is not clogged by mental and emotional “cataracts,” our heart can see clearly to guide us.
Sometimes making changes in self is all that is needed to attract the other person.
Sometimes making those changes in self awakens us to the reality that we can do – and deserve – much, much better than what we had previously settled for.
One thing you do want to beware of is anyone offering a relationship psychic reading or offering to do “love spells” FOR you.
You and only you are responsible for learning how to attract in to your life the type of relationship you desire.
It can be difficult to learn to control one’s own thoughts, emotions, words, and actions when not used to doing so.
However, when we learn to do so, to direct the mind and the heart in an intelligent manner, we can open up new possibilities we previously were not able to access successfully.
Remember “Mind control begins with you.”
Perhaps I will come back to this topic again in a future post. Write to me if you have questions about this topic. Please note: I do not do psychic relationship readings for others.
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