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Are you responsible for how others perceive you in a relationship?

Are you responsible for how others perceive you?

Are you responsible for someone else’s opinions and feelings about you?

The answer, of course, is “No!”

I mean, “you CAN be,” but the other person is responsible for their thoughts and perceptions.

Let me give an example of someone who is responsible for how others perceive them.

I remember being at a seminar, and there was some guy there – I have no idea where he was from or his name or anything. He wanted some tips on how to meet women.

The dude was dressed sloppy. His hair was uncombed. He SMELLED like he hadn’t had a shower in a week.

And he wondered why women didn’t want to be around him.

I was at another seminar, and some guy – I don’t know his name, don’t care to know his name – was trying to meet women in the hotel lobby during the dinner break.

The guy met a nice woman who was attending a different seminar at the same hotel, and they were having a good conversation.

All of a sudden, he said something really stupid about how (in his opinion) men were better than women.

That woman turned and walked away.

I was happy for her.

Served him right.

He was disrespectful, ignorant, and annoying.

There are times, though, when through our best efforts, the people we care about just don’t understand us.

Sometimes they got other stuff going on that has nothing to do with us, and their mental filters are out of whack.

The good news for you is “It’s NOT your fault!”

You can – and should – learn more and better ways to communicate, if you need to.

My friend Fred was having trouble getting along with a lady he likes. She got upset at a lot of the things he said, and he was getting frustrated because he didn’t completely understand her, either.

Fred went and learned some better ways to communicate.

They were still having trouble, so they sat down and agreed to work together to understand each other.

They came up with a simple, magic statement they both agreed to use whenever they didn’t understand each other instead of making assumptions and getting upset.

That simple question they agreed to?

“I do not understand how you meant what you just said (and repeat back those words, verbatim). What did you mean?”

Soon – with a little bit of effort, they both had reference points for how each other thinks and feels, and now they like each other more than they ever did before.

Is the other person willing to work with you to communicate more clearly with each other?

Is the other person willing to come to a mutual understanding, mutual respect, and mutual improvement of the relationship?

If so, and if you believe there is something worth keeping there with that person, there are things you can do to help you get along better with each other. Most people who want mind control tips and telepathic communication tips want some way to mentally, emotionally, or psychically “force” the other person to do what they want the person to do.

That is a bad road to go down.

The other person will resent you for it.

Mind control – when done intelligently and properly – has much more to do with expanding your understanding of yourself, your strengths and weaknesses, the other person, their strengths and weaknesses, and learning skills to help you get what you want and need to feel fulfilled in the relationship while also helping the other person get what they want and need to feel fulfilled in the relationship.

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Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
Mind Control And ESP Trainer

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Do poor finances have to doom your relationship?

Do poor finances have to doom your relationship?

Financial stress is one of the biggest problems in a relationship.

There are “poor” people who are happy together, though, and there are people who make a lot of money who are miserable together.

So money does not have to control your relationship. Money does not have to control you, either.

Sometimes we or the person we love have screwed up finances before the relationship even begins.

But does it have to doom the relationship?

Many financial advisors say that you should get out of a relationship as quickly as possible if the other person has money issues.

Those people are more financially successful than I am, so I won’t argue with them.

I would like to point out some alternatives that might help you out, though.

Keep in mind I do not give mental health, medical, or financial advice. These are just some things to consider.

Once upon a time, the man was the main source of income in a relationship. Nowadays, many professional women earn more than their man.

Once upon a time, a couple always had one financial account, and one person – either the man or the woman – was in charge of taking care of the finances: rent or mortgage, paying the utilities, doing the grocery shopping, etc.

Times are different now.

I remember reading a couple of years ago that many couples nowadays are HAPPIER when they have separate accounts.

Do you have a relationship with someone who likes to spend, spend, spend, and you want to keep the relationship without going broke, losing the house, and being poor and hungry in your old age with that person?

One way to deal with that is to have separate accounts.

I learned some interesting things when my dad’s health went way downhill, and I got my parents in to see a lawyer for family asset protection.

Keep in mind, I am not giving legal advice here, and laws might vary in your state.

One way to protect the ones you love is to have the common property – the house, perhaps one or more bank accounts, and other significant assets – put in to a trust, and have medical and financial power of attorney documents put on file.

So if something happens to one spouse, the other spouse can easily get ahold of those assets when they need them.

Your situation might vary. See a good asset protection attorney in your area for tips on this.

Even if you are both financially responsible, this type of arrangement can help protect your loved one if something happens to you.

The ideal is for both of you to be healthy and happy long in to old age, and die of old age, happy together.

It is also ideal to help prepare the way ahead for those you love.

Now when it comes to spending money, agree together to each have a certain amount of “fun money.”

Nobody likes to work their tail off without having any fun.

Already up to your ears in debt and don’t know what to do about it?

I recommend you find a copy of “The Richest Man In Babylon,” and read it. You should be able to find it free online. Or you can use my amazon link by clicking the title.

In addition to a strategy to wipe out debt, it offers another helpful belief to adopt: “A percentage of all I earn is mine to keep!”

Even if you can only save 1%.

Preferably, you start with at least 10%. If you’re putting it in to a pre-tax retirement account, you will hardly even notice the difference on your take home pay.

Give yourself and your partner a small percentage of “fun money” to do fun things together so you can help keep the joy in the relationship, and so you can each get things that are meaninful for you.

Of course there are ways to save and make more intelligent spending choices so the same things actually cost less.

Then there’s the option of “do something to improve your ability to make more money.”

You still have to take care of the inner beliefs about money, otherwise you will fall in to the same trap others usually fall into – the trap of increasing spending based on how much money is coming in.

Take care of the underlying emotional issues associated with trying to find emotional peace and satisfaction from spending – realizing that the feelings are gone soon after the purchase is made, and then the need starts all over again combined with the guilt of having blown the money.

Learn to forgive yourself if that’s you. Your partner needs to learn to forgive themselves also. Learn to work together toward a common goal, and do it in a way that allows you to both enjoy each other’s company.

There are many opportunities for low-cost and no-cost activities nowadays.

With the coronavirus garbage going on, nobody is going to the movies. At least not where I live.

But the cable company is offering free wifi at their hotspots.

You can watch movies for free.

There are places to take beautiful walks, beautiful bike rides, see beautiful scenery.

Instead of going to that expensive restaurant, you can cook together and have fun making a nice meal.

If you’d like some tips for low-cost and no-cost dates and fun activities, let me know, and I’ll cover that in another post.

JOY and ENTHUSIASM in a relationship is a HUGE collector of vital energies! Those energies that keep the two of you interested in the relationship and in sticking together and working together for a common goal.

This is a mind control principle known as “The Mastermind Group.”

A mastermind group can be a larger group. But one of the most powerful mastermind groups is a man and woman who are enthusiastic about each other, working toward a common chosen goal, a common chosen purpose, a common chosen future.

I hope you enjoyed this article.

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Thank you, and I will see you again in the next article!

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
Self Mind Control trainer
ESP trainer

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Secrets of Telepathic Repulsion And Attraction

Most people think of telepathic communication as the sending of telepathic commands or instructions to another person.

There are times when this happens, and there are ways to train it. (I have a course in my archives on “Silent Mental Commands.” If you don’t yet have it and would like it, write to me. It’s not currently on the website for the general public.)

There’s something that most people are not aware of concerning telepathic communication and telepathic repulsion and attraction – something I have been reminded of lately.

There is something interesting that Robert Fludd noticed, and Ingo Swann found and mentioned in his excellent book “Psychic Sexuality,” which is not a “sex book,” but rather a book about the effects and awareness of those sexualizing energies that energize us and give us life.

The really neat thing Robert Fludd noticed was that when two people come in contact with each other, if the energies between them were distorted or messed up, “negative” magnetism took place.

But if the energy radiating from the one passed freely into the other person, the result was “positive” magnetism.

In other words, telepathic energies of REPULSION or ATTRACTION.

(Swann, Ingo. Psychic Sexuality. E-book. Crossroad Press. 2014.)

The IMPLICATIONS of this, while they “should be obvious,” are not obvious to most people.

I remember being in college and hanging out with some really good friends.

We ate garbage – french fries, fried shrimp, fried foods, lots of “garbage food” that we made in the dorm. (Even though we weren’t “supposed to.”)

One of those friends got terrible gas from what he ate.

We would be hanging out, and all of a sudden, he would let out the most TOXIC fart.

It (usually) wasn’t directed at any of us on purpose.

But it drove us all out of the room!

It was almost unbearable!

Energies of thought and emotion work sort of like that.

And the stench lingers in the air.

So when you have a grudge against a person or a misunderstanding and choose to hang on to it, the energies between the two of you get distorted and energies of “repulsion” TELEPATHICALLY take place – completely and entirely with a life of their own, REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU WANTED TO HAVE HAPPEN INSTEAD!

And…

If you are carrying around a grudge against someone else, even those energies radiate outward from you, and those same energies affect all others in proximity with you AND THOSE YOU THINK ABOUT WHILE HOLDING ON TO THOSE GRUDGES!

Most people try to put a relgious-moral spin on the words of Jesus regarding the thoughts of the heart and the mind.

There’s something much deeper here than any religious group’s “list of do’s and don’ts.”

We are responsible – to ourselves AND to others – for the “mental and emotional diet” we feed ourselves.

Because it affects us AND everyone who comes in proximity to us.

It affects those we are connected with when we think about them.

Even at a distance….

Those energies we have chosen – either by default or on purpose – tend to take on a life of their own!

Now does that mean I am responsible for the thoughts and emotions going on inside your mind?

Are you responsible for the thoughts and emotions going on inside of my mind?

NO!

It does mean, however, we are responsible for self and how we relate to others.

I am responsible for me.

You are responsible for you.

Sometimes we attract the wrong people.

Sometimes we attract the right people but then repel them.

Sometimes they repel us.

Sometimes we attract what we want but can’t seem to do it on purpose.

The easy answer is to “blame” someone – either self or the other person – or both!

Yet choosing to take RESPONSIBILITY for self has absolutely nothing to do with “blaming,” and has everything to do with making intelligent choices and action regarding thoughts, how we feel (our emotions), and how we relate to others.

And…

“If you don’t like what you have been drawing to you, YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!”

Questions? Comments?

Let me know.

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
MindControlResources.com

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Is a relationship psychic reading any good?

Is a relationship psychic reading any good?

There are many, many ways you can benefit from psychic awareness.

There are also many pitfalls people fall in to.

In this article I’m going to focus specifically on benefits and pitfalls of relationship psychic readings. These points will also apply to other applications too though.

We all have the ability through the heart and mind to do our own readings and to have our own knowings.

So why does it seem difficult to do sometimes? Why does it seem difficult to get answers sometimes?

I know someone who currently has cataracts. It clouds their vision. They cannot read or see as well as they used to.

Our own thoughts, emotions, doubts, fears, insecurities, grudges, gripes, disappointments, hopes – all these and more – provide a “filter” that we see through.

It’s like in the Bible where it says “for now we see as through a glass darkly.”

Most folks are not aware of their own “clouded vision.”

I have been reminded of this before also in attempting to get answers regarding someone for the purpose of “making things right” with them.

Answers that often would have been easy to get seemed distant and far away.

Most folks do not know they are the ones who are responsible for their own filters, their own thoughts, their own emotions.

It may be true that the other person has hurt, offended, let us down, or done us wrong in some way or other. They are responsible for their own self. I am responsible for me. You are responsible for you.

One of the greatest mistakes people make is trying to get someone else to “do it for them.”

They want to go to a psychic and get help with their relationships.

Edgar Cayce was very, very good.

He always gave advice on improving one’s own attitude, thoughts, and emotions, along with understanding of how those affect the current situation and how the improvement of those same forces lead to positive change.

Most people doing readings are good at “cold reading.” They simply take your money.

Notice that Edgar Cayce accepted donations, but he did not charge a fee for his readings.

Most people are really not good enough to give you that kind of advice.

There are some, however, who are excellent enough at what they do that they can train you how to access those answers for yourself.

Most of the people who do believe in psychic abilities are far too quick to abdicate the throne of responsibility. Instead of devloping their inner self, their thoughts, their attitudes, their words, their actions, they want to be “at effect” of the things that happen to them – including the person they want a relationship with or the person they want to give them answers.

Even when someone else has “done us wrong,” there is a huge difference between blaming and self-responsibility.

Please note that self-responsibility is not the same as blaming of self.

So is there a way to benefit from doing our own relationship psychic reading?

Yes.

However, there are some things we must do in order to be accurate:

1.) Be willing to let go of gripes, complaints, grudges, feelings of abandonment, fears, insecurities, doubts.

2.) Be willing to step back from the situation and examine it intelligently.

Sometimes the answer is “walk away.”

Sometimes the answer is “keep working at it.”

Sometimes the answer is “you need to work on self in order to attract that other person back in to your life.”

I know personally I have fallen in to two different “mind-traps,” and I know others who have done the same.

The first mind-trap is to…

1.) Blaming of self for the entire screwup. “It’s all my fault.” It could be true. That’s usually not the case, though.

2.) Blaming of the other person for the entire screwup. “It’s all their fault!” This falls under the category of a “victim mentality” and “Poor Little Ole Me!”

Sometimes we might have found ourselves in relationships where the other person truly is rotten to the core.

And they might be responsible for much garbage they have done to us.

However, keep in mind that in order for there to be a relationship, there has to, by definition, be at least 2 individuals there in relationship to each other.

So instead of griping, blaming, pointing the finger, a better question is “Now that I know what I do not want, what can I do – that I have control of and responsibility for – to attract the type of relationship I do desire.”

Whatever your case might be, another common mistake many make is the need to have a relationship work with a specific person.

If they want to go, let them go.

Is it sometimes hard to do?

Yes.

There is another side of this.

When our heart is not clogged by mental and emotional “cataracts,” our heart can see clearly to guide us.

Sometimes making changes in self is all that is needed to attract the other person.

Sometimes making those changes in self awakens us to the reality that we can do – and deserve – much, much better than what we had previously settled for.

One thing you do want to beware of is anyone offering a relationship psychic reading or offering to do “love spells” FOR you.

You and only you are responsible for learning how to attract in to your life the type of relationship you desire.

It can be difficult to learn to control one’s own thoughts, emotions, words, and actions when not used to doing so.

However, when we learn to do so, to direct the mind and the heart in an intelligent manner, we can open up new possibilities we previously were not able to access successfully.

Remember “Mind control begins with you.”

Perhaps I will come back to this topic again in a future post. Write to me if you have questions about this topic. Please note: I do not do psychic relationship readings for others.

Thank you for stopping by to read this post.

Check back again for more helpful content.

Sincerely,
Jim Knippenberg
ESP Trainer